Inner considering

Inner considering is based on what we expect of others or the world. It is a function of the personality: we “consider” that others owe us attitudes, gestures and attentions. When these requirements are not met, emotions and thoughts may arise (disappointment, feelings of abandonment or worthlessness). When we maintain them, we lose energy, and suffer uselessly. Those who “internally consider” do not live in reality and in accepting it, but in a world of illusion in which one creates a self that tries to conform and to which one also tries to conform the other to.